A little bit complicated, in (a business) life,...is that "great"
attitude: but we've always done it this way... Read what Debroah Corn
writes about this under title: "Taking Control of the Phrase: But We've Always done It This Way"
She writes e.g. "When you look around your business, whether you’re the
owner or not, I
bet you can find many processes that are done “because they’ve always
been done that way.” People have a very high need of security. Maybe
that is one reason for why we do prefer the way we've always done even
we should do something totally different way.
Let's
think for e.g. partnerships when they do fail. What happened usually?
(S)he runs to the new partnership as soon as possible to show the former
one that my life is still running well. What happened after the first
few months when "the falling in love-feelings" are end up?
Yes, indeed. The situation is exactly the same it have always been.
Should it be? No. I'm sure that you were searching for totally
different way to live and love. But unfortunately it is however so easy
to repeat your basic mistakes.
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